Elfy’s Back!
Well for a short time anyway…… I will return to my blogging proper soon.
So lets see, what have we missed?
Well while I’ve been up to my fuzzy mop in yawn-worthy project ….. the summer has started (allegedly)
Mum visited… and we went to the Keukenhoff… photos on flickr
Tuilps from Amsterdam
We had Queens day, which despite its National Drama, and some more personally experienced drama, was a lovely time.
I went back to work and things just moved along…..
I will say that living here lends a lot of time to thinking and planning, which is in my opinion something I am glad for. Being here I have learned to really listen to what I think or feel about a situation, to depend on my own reaction and thoughts and to stand up for what I want. I always put others opinions on what I should do or how I should react as the more important. I second guessed and self doubted as if it was an Olympic sport that I was in training for.
Here; I am my own person, of my own making. I loved that when I came here first I could almost begin again, as a 30 yr old 
If I wanted to be decisive and confident I could be, and no one would be able to judge me on previous experiences or on past failed endeavours.
So all this thinking and inner confidence building up has produced quite the effect, to my mind anyway, and be prepared for the next few months, as the fruits of my thinking time come out and shine.
So that’s the Elf? What of Amsterdam?
Well Amsterdam is as it ever was, I’m enjoying the summer, the longer evenings and the sun on my face on my way to and from work. My *new* bike, purchased in February has proven to be the most fabulous purchase ever, I love it so much. Cycling the 19km round trip is a breeze and in hail, rain or sun (I don’t do snow) I cycle to work and everywhere besides. Actually I have gotten extremely ‘dammer about it, as was pointed out by a “newbie” who remarked that I cycled the 2min walk to my local Sunday brunch spot, and why not, isn’t it even quicker by bike!
Cycling does give me a fantastic freedom, I never wanted a car and I wasn’t pushed on learning how to drive. But once I got over the paralyzing fear last summer of the first few months, and especially since the new dream-bike, it has just really improved my life quality. Even with the crap bike, in the winter I missed cycling, I missed the exercise and the brain stimulation. So now I am *getting* to ‘dammer proficiency (I’ll never be a Shaun who whizzes kamikaze style) but I can pedal my own!
Summer is definitely in bloom with many of my friends pregnant I know 3 couples now eagerly awaiting bundles of joy and poo! Even some of my utterly wonderful gayer-boy mates are contemplating procreating, which makes me really happy. I have to say, a nicer bunch of people you couldn’t find!
Im really looking forward to this years Pride, we have a few of the family participating in the Drag Queen Olympics and then we are going to set up camp at our vantage point early, so we can brunch and rink in the sun, and await the passing boast bedecked in carnival and nearly naked beings!
My apartment had its own dramas this spring, after one particularly bad spring storm there was a leak from the roof, which bypassed the upstairs apartment via their kitchen wall, and ended up ALL over my bed. It was so bloody annoying, although not as annoying as dealing with the agency. Quick note for anyone that is moving here, contact me regarding agencies, they charge like a mofo and do nothing to help when you need them.
So for now I will leave you, I have to say I’ve missed blogging, I may not get back to the Lenten Post a Day rhythm I had. But I will be back, as my plans and the summer unfolds I promise you now at least two posts a week!
Drinky Links and Amsterdam Cool need an airing too!
Elf!
You sound refreshed and happy!
Good on you.
We have the in-laws around for pride weekend…here we go again…
Hello My dear.
Yes I am .. a bit.
I must introduce you to another mate of mine in Lieden who’s missus is currently with lodger. You two can swap craving notes and meet for sanity chats in the petol station at midnight on yet another cucumber and peanutbutter supply run!
hey, maybe we can share a beer at some point during Pride
Yes!!!
Well I would like my own beer, but sure I’d love to meet up
If you want to join us to watch the parade let me know.
I know the boys would be pleased to meet you…..
What a refreshing and positive blog post. Everything else I read today was miserable! Yay! x
Awh thanks love!
Feeling positive and happy at the moment!
Hopefully the sunny posts will continue!
Also those pictures are beautiful, what colours!
Keukenhof is fantastic.
It’s only really amazingly colorful for a few weeks but so worth catching.
We came too late to see the flower fields in full bloom on the way in, but still it was gorgeous.
ah I loved that posted. Welcome back
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Thanks pet. xx
You were missed!
Welcome back to the fold.
Thanks GM!!
I missed blogging but I needed ruminating time.
So now there is a plan, which *fingers crossed* will unfold I am back.
Great to see you back! I’ve revived my bike recently. Bought a pump and a new lock and am enjoying being able to cycle while it lasts. I don’t think I’ll be able to brave the weather here in October! x
Hey Babes!
You should get a mounted back lock too, they are hard to get in Ireland so let me know and I can bring one over for you, but they are great as the bike really cant get far with one!
What sort of bike you got?
It’s a mountain bike. I got it years ago for my birthday and it was my prized possession but then I started driving and forgot about it. Now I’m enjoying cycling far more than driving although it’s not so convenient when it rains!
x
Great post elf!
As someone who wants to get his Irish ass into Amsterdam ASAP (hopefully next year after the degree is done & dusted) on a permanent basis posts like this are absolutely fascinating